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Stop trying to play therapist, buttercup. by Catthylove Stop trying to play therapist, buttercup. by Catthylove
The gal who said that they should? In the stamp community she has a reputation for being somewhat of a moron. She's said a lot of fucked up bullshit but this is the most fucked up shit I've seen/heard her say.

I would NEVER forgive my rapist if I ever got raped. In fact, I'd want him to suffer as I had suffered. No, fuck that. I'd want any rapist to suffer much MORE than the victim had suffered.

So don't you DARE go spewing such fucking bullshit again, you stupid bitch. And you KNOW who you are. You KNOW.
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tentacledork Featured By Owner Apr 13, 2017  Student General Artist
yeah, honestly, i think that one you rape a person you should lose your rights. rape is truly evil, and it would be so nice if proven rapists could get the death sentence. :3
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Moosiful Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2016  Student General Artist
This stamp reminds me of "I Spit On Your Grave: Vengeance Is Mine" and I was watching a scene where the female victim was talking to an old woman who was a therapist and she was telling her bullshit about forgiving the rapist and it pissed me off so bad I wanted to just go right into the movie, bitch slap her and throw a brick at her thick ass head. Jfc some therapists can be dumbfucks.

Also wow, I asked my mom if she were to ever got raped and if she would forgive the rapist or not and apparently she said yes. It doesn't surprise me because the fact that she is a Christian.
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IReallyHatePeople Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2016
Most Christians I know would think the exact opposite of this and boy it just makes my blood boil when hearing them say that a victim should "forgive" their murderer/rapist.
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Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
I've never been molested or raped, but I know people who were. They'd NEVER forgive their attacker. If I was, I'd never forgive them either. 
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Queen-of-Ice101 Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2016  Student Writer
This is so true. I've never been raped but I dealt with sexual abuse over the course of three years at the hands of a classmate in elementary school because he got curious and decided I was the easiest target to try things on and I don't know if I'll ever be able to forgive him, even though he never raped me.

I can't imagine how rape survivors must feel, and to tell them to forgive either comes from someone who has never experienced this kind of nightmare or is a sexual abuser themselves and has a weird way of trying to "make things better".
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
Aww I'm sorry :( *hugs* 
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Queen-of-Ice101 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Student Writer
Thank youHug 
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snowpuff77 Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I don't mean to re-open old wounds but OMG! 3 years of sexual abuse at the hands of an elementary classmate?! My goodness, and I always felt helpless about the backdoors of sexual abuse I had had to endure from my stepmother at age 10-13. She voyeuristicly abused me by making me take showers every morning (even if I just took a complete one the previous night and didn't feel dirty that morning) at her and Dad's house, and coming in every few minutes to nosily pry at me (meaning she purposely pulled back the shower curtains to expose my naked body for her to see), and boss me around on what to do next. I already knew how to wash, and even expressed at the very beginning my violated reaction, but she just belittled my feelings with "Hey, I saw you naked when you were a baby..." I'll never forgive that pedo cunt for that and her other abusive incidents: countless emotional abuse about my hair and clothes, and one physical case of her groping my buttocks (and in front of the whole paternal family too!) and underwear when "adjusting" this stupid winter sports suit my aunt gave me to wear, yet the whole family bashed when I wore it over.
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Edited Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
I would love to slap that bitch on your behalf. How disgusting. D:< 
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snowpuff77 Featured By Owner Dec 8, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thanks. She deserves it.
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Queen-of-Ice101 Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2016  Student Writer
Oh no it's fine. I wouldn't have mentioned it if I didn't want to run the risk of people responding. 

That would have been a nightmare to endure. I think that the hardest abuse to endure is at the hands of someone your supposed to be able to trust and love. I can't imagine what that would have been like:( 
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snowpuff77 Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree. Likewise, I've mentioned the abuse if it was on the similar abuse topics, in hopes that maybe others out there suffered a similar covert abuse. Someone else I know on here whom will remain anonymous, suffered molestation by her stepfather trying to unhook her bra and/or mouth kiss her, both incidents she clearly refused.
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Queen-of-Ice101 Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2016  Student Writer
I've heard heartbreaking stories like that here on DeviantArt. It's painful to see just how many people have faced sexual harassment/abuse, and those are just the ones who have spoken out. 
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Edited Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
It's so sad. :( I feel so insignificant for it for not being able to help them and I feel insignificant because I've only been verbally and physically abused, I've never been raped/molested and people say that I shouldn't complain about my abuse because it wasn't sexual... like, wtf? It's still traumatic for me. 
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Queen-of-Ice101 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Student Writer
It really is sad. So many of these incidents go without the perpetrators ever being dealt with and punished, getting away scottfree with shattering lives. 

They tell you that you shouldn't talk about it because it wasn't sexual? Pardon my saying this, but those people are full of so much bull I'm surprised they have room for food. I hate it when people like that come forward spewing their crap. If we wanted to hear people belittling to our situation and telling us that it isn't anything to be upset about we'd record our own thoughts and have them playing on a repeat Playlist so we could hear them outside of our mind as well as inside.

I'm sorry you faced the abuse you did:( 
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Edited Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
Ikr it's complete bullshit. Also they told me my physical abuse wasn't really abuse and it was "discipline," especially because none of my bones were broken or I didn't have have blood/severe bruises or I didn't get hospitalized; or that my emotional abuse wasn't "real" abuse and that I "probably did something to deserve it." It was still abuse!I'm still shaken up and fucked up from it. I instinctively flinch from unexpected physical contact, one time I actually screamed from being grabbed/tapped on the shoulder without it being expected, and the person who unexpectedly touched me was so terrified and I felt like shit. I also freak out when someone touches my neck, I CANNOT STAND BEING TOUCHED ON MY NECK, due to being grabbed by the neck or being choked out several times when I was younger. Someone tried to get a bug off my neck, it was a ladybug and they tried to SLAP my neck to kill it, and I screamed and backed away from them, getting the ladybug off myself and setting it free (I don't kill ladybugs they're cute). 
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snowpuff77 Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
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InvMeg Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Did anyone else scroll through the comments to see which one said "oh I would"?
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IReallyHatePeople Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2016
Lol i did.
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Viist Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2016  Student
Thiiiiiiiiiiiis. 


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ZombieWolf22 Featured By Owner Edited Jun 1, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Eugh...
I have two older brothers, one is three years older than me, and the other is six years older.
When I was five years old, my brother got 'curious' which is fine. Most young boys are. However he decided to use me as his "testing dummy."
It wasn't once either. This went on once to twice a month from when I was 5 to 13. My parents first caught him doing these kinds of things when I was 7, and gave him a small talk. Then again when I was 13. I knew deep down what he was doing was not right, and I had told him stop a billion times but it never did anything. I guess I didn't speak up because I was afraid? He would threaten me, not with my life, but things I loved. Looking back I regret not speaking up. However when I was 13, I did. Best decision of my life. One night he did it and I had enough of it. Told my parents, and a week later he had to apologize. "I'm sorry" doesn't cut for me though after all of those years. I cannot stress how thankful I am that I didn't get pregnant. I do not support sex at that age, and incest is a complete no for me. Let alone I did not want to partake in those actions. What he did was beyond curiosity, and he very well knew it. Looking back at the situation at an older age makes me sick to my stomach how he planned what he did over the course of those years.
As for the other brother, it happened when I was 13. Nowhere near as bad, but still wrong. I forgave him with a lot of time.

Had he had done it once, I could have forgiven him over time. However I cannot get over how disgusted I still am at the situation. Maybe I am dwelling on the past a bit much, but anyone who has had something similar would certainly understand. I will take this as a lesson and learn and build myself off of it. Even though I still feel like he viewed me as a complete tool for his enjoyment. 
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
I am so sorry... damn... I hope he gets locked up for that or something, karma will get him back one day, I just know it. *hugs you* :( 
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Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I am so sorry that happened to you, and you have every right to not forgive your abusive brother. 
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wakaflockaflame1 Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Forgiveness is the first step to acceptance...

If the rapist is sorry... To not forgive must mean one is in denial...
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Presumptuous-Cat Featured By Owner May 2, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
As one of the youngest women to be raped ( in only 13 ), I agree. People ask, Why don't women enjoy rape? Well, my friend:

Imagine you have a ring stuck on your finger. You probably get it wet and pull it off painlessly. If the finger is dry, then it hurts.
Same thing with women. As the rapist forces his *ahem* 'stick' into her, her 'thing' is dry.

It tears at the skin, causing AGONYYYY. My 15 year old cousin was babysitting me, and he hit me, hard. He forced me onto the floor. I remember crying to my mom, and my cousin moved away.
I was dizzy for hours, and for a while, I thought it was my fault. I went as far as tying a noose, but then I tore it down. I have a scar on my temple to show it. We did not report it, I wanted NO attention.
The worst thing: I'm gay. It scarred me more than it should. I forced my mom to burn the carpet. I had know my cousin for years.
Thank you, very much
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LordTerminos Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2016
I feel bad for you
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doglett Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You're not even close to being one of the youngest woman to be raped. Actually, a lot of child rape victims are pretty young, younger than 10 or 11.
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Presumptuous-Cat Featured By Owner Jun 24, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
And a 5 year old don't count as a young woman
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Presumptuous-Cat Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Many young women have been raped, and I'm technically not talking to you hon.
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wakaflockaflame1 Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I've seen 5 year old...who GAVE BIRTH...you aren't the youngest....still bad tho...
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Presumptuous-Cat Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I said as ONE of them
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wakaflockaflame1 Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Well neither the less. I'm sorry that happen to you...
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wakaflockaflame1 Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Well neither the less. I'm sorry that happen to you...
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Presumptuous-Cat Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
T H A N K Y O U 😤
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wakaflockaflame1 Featured By Owner May 6, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
No need for thank yous.
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shortcakeemoji Featured By Owner Apr 12, 2016
as a rape survivor, id never forgive my rapist. he traumatized me really badly and hes the reason why im so scared of being in a long distance relationship. im also a child-on-child sexual assault survivor as as well as a child sexual assault survivor, and he was very well aware of that and it already fucked me up as it is

unfortunately, because of how my family is, im scared to tell my own family about it in fear of being LAUGHED at. yes, LAUGHED. AT
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
I'm sorry... here is a hug Hug 

I'm not a sexual abuse or rape/molestation survivor, but I am an emotional and physical abuse survivor and abuse is never okay, nor is it ever your fault. No matter what kind of abuse someone goes through, it's never their fault and they deserve so much better. 
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ZekeEugene Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2016
I'm sorry to hear about what happened.
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Powerpuffwitches Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2016
I am so sorry to heard that......Sad Hug Extended 
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shortcakeemoji Featured By Owner Apr 14, 2016
you dont have to apologize, its ok
my ex boyfriend has tried everything to make me seem the bad person, he said im a sexual assaulter, of which im not
hes a liar and a piece of shit
hes saint-nevermore
avoid him
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RedDiamond28 Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2016
who said they should?
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Gavin-The-Bunny Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2016
If I was raped (likely won't get raped, well, hopefully won't) I'd forgive the rapist. I don't if I'm just too nice, or just plain wimpy.
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Gavin-The-Bunny Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2016
*I don't know if
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Yoshi1337 Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
therapist = the rapist
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Karatefinch Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
so true lol
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tultsi93 Featured By Owner Feb 11, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
If someone raped my children, I wouldn't forgive him or her.
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KittenPrince55 Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2016  Hobbyist Writer
I'd kill them slowly and painfully, no one touches my babies. 
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QueenNympth Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Honestly, if someone raped my child, I wouldn't just not forgive them, I'd unleash fucking hell.
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ToastyBrain Featured By Owner Aug 25, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Christ you have issues. You're no better than them if you victim blame men like a fucking feminazi.
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