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In some ways, I fail at being my own gender (by society's standards).

-I don't like wearing makeup. I wear it only when I go out to a very special occasion. I don't like doing my nail, either. I hate it. And other girls are always convinced I'm a fucking doll to play with.

-I like my hair short. Other girls hate this about me because I look "OHH SO PRETTY!" when it's not their body. :/

-I'm not a very neat person. In fact, I think better in a cluttered space. My mom doesn't get this about me. She wants me to keep my room clean.

-I don't want to be a mother.

And several other things.
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Ellyyyyy Featured By Owner Feb 20, 2015
1. I hate make-up because it makes me feel fake.
2. I have short hair because it's easier to manage and I'm too lazy to take care of a long mane XD
3. I've never played with dolls, I've always liked playing outdoors.
4. Yeah I'm a very messy person too heh.
5. I have more guy friends than girl friends.
6. I'm not afraid of violence, blood or gore.
7. My friend once said I'm a gay guy from the inside. XD
8. I dont cry in front of other people.
9. I dont wear dresses.
10. I'm a proud tomboy ;P
desilancer Featured By Owner Feb 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
My conclusions:

~Makeup SUCKS! I hate putting on makeup! It just looks and feels gross on my face!
~I rather my hair short as well since long hair is brallllllll hard to keep.
~Me? Neat? Look at the state my room is in!
~Well I wouldn't mind being a mother but yeah.
~I don't mind dresses but other girls clothes are BLEH to me.
~I DID NOT PLAY WITH DOLLS WHATSOEVER!!!!!! I played with cars instead.
~My style of music is so questionable in this scenario.
~So they say that girls don't rough house BUT I DO! X'D Sometimes.
~I heard the saying "you're not supposed to hit girls" while I got hit a bunch of times.
~I don't quite freak out as much anymore when I get hit in the face by a ball.
~Blood satisfy me! (So does violence lmao)
~I'm such a weirdo and tend to speak to myself a lot!
~I'm actually very interested in sports, mechanics and building with wood.
~Green and blue are my top 2 most fave colours.
~Boy clothing is cool.
~So are suits and bow ties!
~I have high energy and has a short attention span.
~I don't consider myself as a tomboy because I'm actually Genderqueer!
~And I actually want to be male!
~The only reason why I crush males as well is because I'm a Panromantic Polysexual Polymory.
DragonStar2197 Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
-I fight back when someone tries to put makeup on me
-I like my hair longer, mainly because my hair curls as it gets shorter and I hate it, but I also keep my hair in a ponytail when people say it looks better when i let it down, but I hate it.
-I can't stay neat if my life depended on it, when I'm forced to clean my room I'm like "Holy shit I have a floor!"
-Being a mother is the least of my priorities, I'd rather focus on video game design at the moment.
-I will not wear a dress/skirt unless it is for a special occasion (for example, my school is having a masquerade Valentine's dance next week, and I have to wear a skirt.)
-I can't stand girly things, but when I try to it's very limited. This is especially confusing for me as for about a year, I got along with a girl who's the exact opposite of me. 
le-procrastinatorz Featured By Owner Jan 6, 2015  Student General Artist
lemme see....

- The only time I use makeup is using mascara to make people look like they have a black eye. (even ask Luna XD sooo funny)

- I like my hair long because I look like friggin Dora when it's short. But I'm not one of those "1839517694619657461970 brushes a day gets the boys to play!!!!!!1111!!!!1!!" tpye girls. Normally my hair is a total mess and I guess I kinda like it that way. :P

- I AGREE WITH YOOOOOOOOOUUUUU I love my workspace messy and never bother to clean it. But everyone wants me to be tidy but I don't get the point because I'm only gonna mess it up again XP

- I don't want to be a mother either.
NeneSims Featured By Owner Dec 19, 2014
1 - I'm not a fan of a "cute" singer (I dislike 1D, Justin Bieber and and that shit)
2 - I also NEVER wear makeup (I suck at it)
3 - I like horror movies
4 - I'm also not a neat person
5 - I don't think that hot gay boys are a waste (my friends say that and I'm like "WHAT?")
6 - "Sweet things" don't make my style at all...
7 - I like hard rock

So, in some ways I also fail as a girl (by society's standards) and I'm proud of it Wink/Razz 
AwesomeSauce5Yolo Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Yep. we fail so hard as girls we WIN!
IamDragonFury Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2014
Same here, I hate makeup, I hate the color pink, I hate wearing dresses, I LOVE video games, and I'm not 100% good with kids nor am I certain that I want one, however if I ever do get to be a mom, I want a SON! I'm not fond of the idea of having a little girl, I want a little BOY!
videogamesandmyself Featured By Owner Edited Nov 17, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
-Eh... makeup's okay.  I mean, I rarely ever wear it, and when I do, all I put on is a little lip gloss and that's basically it.
-I also have short hair.  I have a pixie cut right now. c:
-I'm not neat AT ALL.  A lot of the times it takes me over a week just to clean up my room...
-Pink's not my favorite color, but I don't hate it.  Sometimes I'll occasionally wear pink clothes.
-I don't mind dresses (though I rarely ever wear them), but for some reason I just HATE skirts.  I don't know why, but for some reason I just cannot stand wearing them!
-I don't mind disturbing or violent things.  (I actually like a lot of creepy/violent T.V. shows, movies, animes, video games, etc..)
-I don't want to date anyone.
-I hate painting my nails.
-I don't want to get married and have kids.  (I'm staying single, yeah! :D)
-I don't like/get along well with the rich, snobby girls.  I generally get along better with boyish girls/guys.  (Basically all of my friends that are girls are at least a little boyish)

YIssy-chan Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014  Hobbyist
I fall into some feminine stereotypes, but others not at all. I just am what I am. I usually don't wear makeup just because it's too annoying to put on, I never put on nail polish unless someone puts it on me, I don't like heels, I'm not obsessed with boys and getting my flirt on whenever a new guy shows up (seriously, my roommates though -_-), and I usually don't do my hair, again because I'm too lazy to. I'm not opposed, necessarily, to doing makeup or hair... in fact, I like it when someone does it for me, but I just don't care enough to do it and I feel perfectly comfortable with myself without having to do it. 

However, I do want to be a mom. Like, a lot. Not this instant, but someday. I don't think any amount of successes elsewhere would make up for never having any children. I also want to get married, but NOT just to get married. I want to marry my best friend who respects me as much as I respect him. If people are worried about marrying someone who controls you, then just don't marry a control freak. For real. There are so many people in the world there's gotta be someone who you would love to live with forever. 
Wiztch Featured By Owner Sep 21, 2014   Artisan Crafter
I do all those things. everytime someone trys to bitch to you about it say "I'm a tomboy.". and many many more XD
jinjursnap Featured By Owner Sep 20, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Everyone acts like makeup is a necessity of life... i still don't understand.
sailorshadey Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2014
I hate makeup, dresses/skirts, high heels, the color pink, and most 'girly girl' things.
InfinityYellowA Featured By Owner Edited Aug 23, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Let's see...
-I can't stand watching ANY tabloid or"celebrity" show(then again most people are like that)
-I don't like pink
-shorts, tights, dresses?....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! 
-I play video games intended for male(or more mature) audiences( pokemon, final fantasy, dragonquest, etc...)
-I can stand gore and blood
-I may complain about my life, but I NEVER ask for something else or say that "I hate my life!"
-I am a tomboy
-Guys clothes for the win!!!
-I can be quite messy
-Short hair(long hair is a pain to deal with)
-I think I can be weird(I dunno)
-I like horror based things!
-Pants Forever!
moonfire-dovahkiin Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
InfinityYellowA Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Hooray!I am a dummy! 
moonfire-dovahkiin Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
last time i wore a dress was to a wedding 2 years ago and when i wear pink its just a hoodie(i love them)
i burnt a dress once
i have a makeup bag that has never been open
InfinityYellowA Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
The last time I wore a dress was..let's see..when I was a toddler(I wear jumper skirts and other clothes that look similar to dresses in special events)

I LOVVVVEEEE hoodies too! (High fives) I wear a lot of pink, but I hate the color..odd.

You burnt a dress once? Cool! I burnt a...let's see...if I remember correctly paper..yeah..

also, me too. I brought it and NEVER bothered to open it upXD
FF2sweethearluv Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
i hate make-up.
i make my space look horrid. (but to me fab) and i can FIND things in it (yes i can find things better in mess than cleanness)
I WOULD NEVER WANT TO BE A MOM! (okay maybe a bit but not too much!)
i DON'T want to get married! (i like the idea of living some where and have no one to tell me what to do what not to do. or possibly be tourtured.)
i HARDLY wear dresses. (unless i feel like it or need a cover)
i'm obssesed with video games!
i'm actually okay watching let's play's of a game with loads of blood that has a 6-year old boy being the fucking spawn of statan (it's cool and it has scared me BUT I'M FINE WITH THAT JUST ADD IN WIERDNESS AND I WONT BE SCARED!)
i don't use the lip-glossd i have hardly (mostly because it gushes out too much or i loose them XD)
i hate hate hate bahs or showers i just don't like water (unless i'm drinking it of course)
if i could be a kid forever I WOULD! (all girls i know are like 'i wanna grow up now! i wanna be a mom! E.T.C. E.T.C also once they had this subject going and i'm like "i don't" and everyone in the room stared at me like "WTF how is this possible?!")
i never text. i only text my mom (i would like to yes so i can actually TALK TO MY FRIENDS when i don't see them but i can't)
Geniusofmath Featured By Owner Jul 5, 2014  Student General Artist
1. I have never worn makeup in my life.
2. I haven't worn a dress since my elementary school graduation.
3. My hair is short. 
4. I like messy space too. besides, the universe is heading towards entropy anyway so messy space is natural
5. I hate the idea of being a mom. 
6. I wear jeans. Every day. Even in the summer. And when I sleep. AND I DON'T OWN ANY SHORTS OR SKIRTS YAY
7. I don't want to date anyone. I am perfectly content with living in my magical world of Flying Mint Bunnies, repetitive Hetalia music, and chocolate. Lots of chocolate.
8. I can't go more than a few days without eating chocolate.

Nightcoregirl101 Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014
#7.... I have found another person like me....

yay~ ☆
Geniusofmath Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2014  Student General Artist
Nightcoregirl101 Featured By Owner Sep 2, 2014
Btw, nice avatar
Geniusofmath Featured By Owner Sep 2, 2014  Student General Artist
Thank you...?
BlankedApplebloom Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Things about me:

1: I hate dresses

2: I hate makeup

3: My hair is short

4: Im a tomboy

5: Im a gamer.
AsahiGirl Featured By Owner Jun 12, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
-I HATE makeup. I only wore makeup once.

-My hair is short too.

-I like my room messy aswell.

-I want to be a mother, but I respect your opinion.
Luigidabest Featured By Owner Jun 11, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
-I don't wear makeup either. Actually, I never have worn makeup and I hope I never will. Women don't fucking need makeup to look beautiful.

-I'd like to have shorter hair but I can't :C (last time I got a haircut was in January -_-)

-I like having my room clean but I'm too lazy to keep it that way

-I don't want to be a mom either. I don't want to take care of some snotty brats.
SpotpeltTheWarrior69 Featured By Owner Jun 5, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I am so like you! Except I want my hair to grow out this summer, since I've heard that heat makes your hair grow longer, and that I want to be a mother someday...
pinksqueck12 Featured By Owner Apr 5, 2014
I know how is it,I'm just like you 
WebkinzandMC Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You just described me in the description, but I have long hair.
aventurera10 Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
CrystalBearerLilith Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I can also relate to these. 
- I've only ever wore makeup once. I hated it. My younger sisters (Both wear make up) and my mom constantly try to get me to wear it, but I wiggle my way out of it. 
- I used to have long hair when I want younger it was to my knee caps. 9th grade hit, and I cut it shorter. (shoulder length) In 10th grade (now) I have a male-ish hair cut. It's extremely short in the back, however I have long bangs.
- I can't be organized. No matter how many organizational things my mom buys for me, I can't. My writing even looks like a dude. 
- I am good with kids, I babysit a lot. However, I don't have an interest in becoming a mother. I'd rather my husband (If I ever marry) and I to just cuddle or whatever. no children.
- I love video games! I can't go a week with out playing one!
- I don't really wear skirts and dresses. I find them really uncomfortable.  
- I would rather wear baggy-ish cloths then tight ones. 
So many more, but I'd rather not bug you with them 

EliratheDinosaur Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Are you my twin? O: xD
CrystalBearerLilith Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
xD Maybe we were separated at birth? lol jk
EliratheDinosaur Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
callme007 Featured By Owner Oct 12, 2013
Me too. The only thing clarifying my gender is my genitalia.
xChelster1 Featured By Owner Oct 5, 2013  Hobbyist
I can relate at some points. I hate doing my nails so I never do that as well and I'm a bit of a tomboy (doing karate and stuff) and I don't wanna be a mom either, I guess.
LeAlphaDawgy Featured By Owner Sep 18, 2013  Student Filmographer
My father calls me "Geek Girl"
I have never heard such a great nickname for myself. Which that's pretty pathetic.
Prosper-the-XVIII Featured By Owner Aug 24, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
-The only makeup I ever wear is black mascara
-I do date someone, but I think that's only because we'd get the shit mocked out of us for jut being friends - we're like the same person, just he's a guy
-I play rugby
-I only own one dress and that's a Halloween outfit
-I've never owned a Barbie or a Bratz doll (only Monster High for a period because I liked the steampunk one)
-I'm the messiest person I know
-I hate my hair. Every girl I know absolutely loves it because its really curly plus long and blonde, but I really want to cut it. But I'm not allowed because my mum won't let me.
-My best friends are two lads, my boyfriend and one girl who fails at her gender as much as I do
LessThan33 Featured By Owner Aug 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You can't run in dresses. It's fucking awkward. Which I hate.
EthanMSB Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2013  Student General Artist
I NEVER wear makeup, my mom made me wear it once. -_- 

I sometimes wear my brother's clothes.

My mom won't quit telling me to "stop being messy" just because I'm a tomboy.

I have no real interest in boys nor girls.

I play video games and I know how to work with a windows XP computer.

I try hanging out with my brother's friends, and they just ignore me. :(

I only have 1 best friend, and she's a girl.

I hang out with my brother A LOT.
gogopri Featured By Owner Jul 14, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I don't wear makeup. I had my face painted as a Pikachu once, it was hard not touching my face.
Funsizefluffy Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2013
You don't wanna be a mom, huh? I'm okay with that. Not EVERY girl has to be a mom. I mean, you're probably going to do something (or you're probably doing it right now) that requires full attention and a kid is just going to get in the way of that.
Catthylove Featured By Owner Jul 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm planning lots of stuff that would require my full attention.
Seerlover233 Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
In the description that's the same for me. And I'm also a girl!
DarkStar123ABC Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2013  Student Artist
1. I don't wanna wear make-up

2. I love short hair

3. My mom doesn't want me to be a tomboy, so i act tiny girlish

4. I'm not too neat either, but neatness doesn't really matter in gender's

5. I kinda wanna date girls (Only my Best friend though)

6. I love to play video games

7. I love MLP:FIM (Thats right... I'M MANLEH!)
RedSwordman777 Featured By Owner Jul 8, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
story of my life.

I hate makeup, a gamer (the reason I get bullied by some guys), and I don't care about fashion
Yayinator Featured By Owner Aug 8, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Me too. I get called a nerd :I (I am though xD)
BeadGCF17 Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist

Guys hate a gamer girl?! I got like 5 gamertags when I said I'm a gamer at school once.
RedSwordman777 Featured By Owner Jul 9, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
well....... some of them are when I'm still grade 4....
at my old days as a 4 grader, the rules aren't strict so student
can bring games like NDS & PSP on school without being smacked by some teacher.

I bring my NDS & play final fantasy 4. but the guys when see the game blurt "cewe kok main game cowok sih?" (Indonesian language)
(translated : "eeek. a girl playing boys game???" )

good thing now I don't encounter boys like this in my school. but I risk too much playing online games & get bullied by anonymous.

(sorry for thee long rant.. he he he)
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